R&D Engineer // Male // 32 // France
Quirky, Introverted, Curious
Favours Honesty & Integrity
Welcome to my interpersonal profile, in this page I hope to provide you with some interesting things about me and what I look for when seeking friends and choosing a partner.
| Age | 32 |
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| Gender | Male |
| Location | South of France |
| Ethnicity | Middle Eastern | Lebanese |
| Languages | English | French | Arabic |
| Height | 169cm (5'6) |
| Weight | Chubby (@_@) |
| Food Policy | Omnivore | Doesn't mind |
| Smoking Policy | Doesn't smoke | Hates smelling cigarette smoke |
| Monogamous | |
| I am currently searching for a single long-term partner. The relationship ideally shares responsibilties. I believe this creates the best environment for possible children. This is a very subtle belief I developed, and I am flexible on this, you can discuss this with me. I am also open for friends, so if you see this and want to be friends hit me up, you will still get to try my great food. | |
| Children Preferred | |
| Does not have, but prefer to have in the long run. Working to make the world better for the next generation, let's go! | |
| Rooted / Not Mobile | |
| Must stay in the south of France for the next few years. Highly prefer partner within geographical proximity or capable of visiting or eventually staying. There is some tasty food in here, you'd be really missing out! Can be discussed if you think we are highly compatible. OK for remote, assuming eventual visits. | |
About You
I appreciate people who are honest, silly, and witty while also being mature, responsible and serious.
Honesty first, and honesty fast.
Disclaimer
If anything in this section appeals to you, then it would be great to at least come by for a chat. These traits I look for are not mandatory, but preferred. Even if you do not have them, thinking they are good, or aspiring to have them is enough.
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Gender
Looking for a Female Partner
While everyone is welcome to be friends/close-friend, this is purely for the possible implication of having a child.
I am also attracted to feminine traits.
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Autonomy
Responsible & Independent
I like a partner I can rely on, can work on their own, and do not require micromanagement.
I love supporting people, but I also can sometime feel overburdened if excessive.
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Knowledge is Power!
Learning & Experimentation
You are someone who constantly likes to explore new ideas, and also learn new things about the world, about yourself, or about other people.
Preferrably, you have gone through the frustrating process of mastering something: instrument, craft, or hobby.
Communication Style
Honest & Open Communication
I am looking for someone capable of communicating clearly their emotions, aspirations, and state of mind without fear of shame, criticism, or reprisal.
Regarding frequency, if online, I expect at least one to communicate once or twice a week, and no more than having a few conversations a day. Too much tends to suffocate me.
Lifestyle
Indifferent, but mostly Sedentary
I am a highly introverted person that goes out very rarely, and has routines mostly. I am mostly looking for a partner who is okay with this. I do not mind if you are extroverted so long as it is fine to not be out ALL DAY EVERY DAY.
That said, I try to be out, mostly to skate or take pictures. But it is unlikely that I would go to long hikes, or crowded parties often. I am more of a person who likes to invite people for food, play video games, play board games, and do house parties.
About Me
I come across as sincere, smart, and serious.
"Something hit me very hard once, thinking about what one little person could do. Think of the Queen Mary — the whole ship goes by and then comes the rudder. And there's a tiny thing at the edge of the rudder called a trimtab.
It's a miniature rudder. Just moving the little trim tab builds a low pressure that pulls the rudder around. Takes almost no effort at all.
So I said that the little individual can be a trimtab. Society thinks it's going right by you, that it's left you altogether. But if you're doing dynamic things mentally, the fact is that you can just put your foot out like that and the whole big ship of state is going to go.
So I said, call me Trimtab."
R. Buckminster Fuller
Goals
I want to build strong, resilient, constructive relationships that ensure growth to all those involved. I have come to believe that to do so, it is important to always maintain communication channels open, and reduce the number of assumptions I take or people take on my behalf. As such, I seek partners that are inquisitive and do not hesitate to ask me questions when things are unclear. I like sharing the initiative to assist, support, and explore new things in relationships.
You can also find the full list of values I have come to develop over the years.
Conflicts
I am unrelenting when a problem appears and highly confrontational. I require that it be solved before sleep / end of day. I believe miscommunication or lack of communication in general makes conflicts impossible to deal with properly.
I assess partners by their ability to handle communication conflicts. I assess people in general by how they apply their moral code to their enemies and themselves.
Big Five
A : Agreeableness
C : Conscientiousness
E : Extraversion
N : Neuroticism
O : Openess to Experience
Testimonials
Suntanned by blood, screenburnt by choice, genderfucky for fun, cooks great, looks great, and a conversational delight. Temporarily trapped in France, destination unknown. Uncannily good at websiteing and shitposting.
Honest, straight-forward, no-bullshit dude. Guaranteed to make you smile. Will cook for you & take your picture too for the gram!
I have been not killed by Whiskerz in a dark alleyway on multiple occasions! 5 stars.
Hobbies
I find plenty of activities absolutely fascinating.
For an exquisite video, click on the top right icon.
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